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Aching Muscles, Sorrowing Hearts and Awakening: A Simple Structure To Begin Repairing & Strengthening Our World

  Typically on a Saturday I chill out relaxed all morning, but today was woken by aching muscles and joints that only happen when I am emotionally exhausted. Our social structure is disintegrating and has been for a long time. At no time was the social fabric of America ever healthy, though the privileged pretended — and […]

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Your Built In Truth Detector & Having It All

If I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I’d want to pass along… In life there will be doubt, in even the strongest of minds and hearts. When in doubt, trust the body to lead you through it. Hand on heart, and the other on your stomach, ask if an […]

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How To Do The Impossible: Part 1

Ask for and get whatever it is you think you can’t, shouldn’t or will never do…but must do. You may be facing the worst day or night of your life. Or a horrible choice you think you can’t make…but have to. Perhaps it’s a diagnosis, work assignment or relationship ultimatum that freezes you to the […]

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Inventing Our Lives, One “Hell No!” At A Time

 I’m in what Suzanne Braun Levine calls the “fuck you 50’s” in her book Inventing The Rest of Our Lives (*highly* recommended) and resonate with her notation that most savvy professional women in this period have no time or patience with naysayers in life or the workplace. I’ll go one further and say “don’t tolerate the […]

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Recoding Failure, Coaching Opinionated Women & Fatal Presuppositions

Plus, a real client case study of someone I am SO proud of at the end. 😉 Many of my clients get referred to me after having been to coach after coach and not getting what they need to go forward in life or business. These strongly opinionated and passionate women want to fill a […]

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You Can’t Fix Toad

Sometimes, a toad is just a toad. It will never be a frog, much less a magical one, able to be kissed into a prince. To vigorously insist that the toad has the possibility of becoming a fine frog, and may one day be a prince can be nice for the toad to hear, but it […]

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Important Safe Sweetener Update

including my recommendation for safe sweets!Truvia, which many of us have been using to avoid the harmful effects of sugar and neurotoxins like saccharine and aspartame, et. al., proves to have some harmful effects of its own: it’s a pesticide, and made with GMO corn. Fruitflies will readily eat Truvia’s active ingredient, erythritol, which kills them in […]

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How to Get In Front Of The Right People: Part 2

In the first article in this series, we looked at how you can position yourself correctly to place you in the path of  gurus, mavens, JV managers, event planners and other decision makers in a position to make your day, and give you a chance to get your stuff out to a much wider audience. […]

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How to Get In Front Of The Right People: Part 1

One question clients consistently ask me is: “How Do I Get In Front Of The ‘Big Dogs’ in my Industry?”  The Answer: It’s first a matter of positioning yourself correctly in front of those people, even if you’re in a seat at the back of the room to begin with.   I went from having only […]

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Of Shame and Symptoms

So one day we were sitting around drinking wine and discussing our recent physical changes when Adele said “I hate to admit it but…I no longer feel like a woman, so much no longer works the way it used to in my body. I’m ashamed of myself.” The women there went right to work on pumping her up and giving […]

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